As we’ve acknowledged before, Tinder is a shallow app. There’s only so much of your personality that you can get across through the application. Are you displaying enough of who you are to motivate her to get off her butt and meet up with you IRL? Ascertain that you’ve created a profile worthy of a right swipe by applying the aforementioned advice.
Men are typically the ones to initiate conversation first. But it’s not always the case. In fact on Bumble, the third most popular dating app in the USA, women are required to message first. Does your profile offer enough sparkly information to attract her attention? Will she be able to look at your profile and be able to ask a question regarding the information you’ve offered her?
What kind of net are you casting? If you’re attempting to attract as many women as possible, then your profile would be full of The Office quotes while also demonstrating a yearning for Tacos. This shouldn’t be your goal. Be as original as possible. This will help you get more likes and make you more attractive to a certain type of person. Before penning your profile, think about the type of woman you’re trying to attract. Most likely it’ll be someone with commonalities to you. Perhaps you’ll want to write that you just signed up for a rock climbing class and are into somewhat conservative politics. With your profile, you’re sending out a broadcast to female users. Use keywords and sentences that speak to a specific audience that you’re hoping to attract rather than broad strokes messages that you hope will catch the attention of the masses.
How many female profiles have you seen where the woman writes, “loves to travel” or “loves sports.” These aren’t details that the reader can easily latch onto. How frustrated do you feel after reading these profiles and still feeling like you’re unable to make a connection with this person due to their ambiguity? Instead of saying that you like to travel, tell your audience where you traveled to last. If you love movies, quote your favorite film. As a platform, Tinder doesn’t make it easy to connect with people. That’s why it’s all the more important that you use specifics when writing your profile. Although this seems like one of the more basic tinder tips for guys, from our testing, guys just aren’t being specific enough on their bios.
Tinder matches have a habit of staying Tinder matches. Men feel gratified when they receive matches, though few will actually meet a Tinder match IRL. The purpose of using dating apps is to match with women online and then meet them in person. If all you’re doing is giggling over the ever-growing cache of matches, you’re not dating correctly. To make the transition from Tinder to the real world you need to get her number. This is better done quickly. The longer a conversation drags on the less likely you are of ever meeting up IRL. One of the easiest ways of asking for a number is to use these never fail lines, “I have get back to work now. Is this the best way to reach you?” or “I have to run now. Let’s take this off Tinder, what’s your number?” Once you have her number, the initial message you send to her phone should be a TDL.
Are you still using your 10-year-old Myspace photos for your Tinder bio? Selfies with a point and shoot camera were so early 21st century. Don’t have any quality photos to post on your Tinder? That’s not a problem. An oft-overlooked Tinder trick is hiring a photographer for a dating app specific photoshoot. Granted it sounds odd at first, but in today’s day and age, a photoshoot for the purpose of creating a better Tinder profile shouldn’t be all that weird. Trust me when I tell you, the clients of mine who go out and hire a photographer reach their goals 300% faster than clients of mine who don’t. Forget about how odd it may seem, the only question you should really be asking yourself is how much love is worth to you? Whether you like it or not, online dating is how modern daters find each other. Having a roster replete with flattering photos could be the difference between finding a girlfriend and being lonely for the next 12 weekends. When uploading photos to your profile, keep these things in mind:
Right now this is one of my favorite Tinder tips for guys. Check it – the standard way a male Tinder user opens a conversation is with “hey.” If he’s feeling like putting in a little effort he might write, “Hey, how’s it going.” If he’s feeling frisky he’ll say, “Hey there cutey.” These all suck. This should be evident by now, but judging by the number of guys that start a convo with “hey,” it’s become an epidemic in need of a cure, stat. One way to put an end to the constant rain of “hey” messages that find their way in female users’ inboxes is by telling your match the meaning of her name. Simply google, “match’s name + name meaning” and boom, there you have your opener. “Hey Julie, did you know your name meant youthful and soft-haired in Latin. Would you say your parents got it right?” This kind of Tinder opening line doesn’t take hours to think up and can be used with any and all women. Although if your match did happen to write a little bit about herself in her profile, you should be addressing her bio. The goal with any opening message is to receive a response. Make your message worth responding to by asking questions, providing interesting information, commenting on her profile, and by being original. She’s jaded by all the “hey” dudes out there. It’s not hard to stand out when all you have to do is read her profile and comment on an interest of hers.
It’s cheating, I know. But the app doesn’t present its users on a level playing field. Tinder isn’t a platform that enables users to demonstrate who they are in-depth; on the contrary. The app is an addictive game posing as a dating app. Realize this and use all the features of the game to your advantage, which includes super likes. For those who don’t know, super likes can be purchased at 5 for $5, 25 for 19.99, or 60 for $39.99. A profile can be super liked by either swiping up or by clicking the blue super like button in the middle of the app’s interface. It signals to another user that you, well, super like them. Once your profile pops up in their deck of cards your profile will be outlined in blue and adorned with a star, signaling to the woman that you super liked their profile. Tinder claims that super liking someone makes it three times more likely that they’ll match with you. Our Tinder test user can confirm that, science does too. Reciprocal liking is liking someone once you know they like you too. Scientists posit that allowing ourselves to reciprocate affection has to do with building self-esteem. From a layman’s perspective, we realize that humans have a base desire to be liked and to build connections. We’re more likely to invest in someone if we know they already favor us in some way. This is why super likes work. The chief reason a super like wouldn’t work is because your profile looks like it was put together in the time it takes to have a bowel movement. We’ll address that later. Also consider upgrading to Tinder Plus. It’s an affordable option for any single man looking to get more than 100 swipes in a given day. And that’s just one of its perks. Here’s my article on How Much is Tinder Plus to help you make a decision on upgrading or not.
Constructing a profile that gets all the matches is not that simple. Your photos have to be rad! The Instagram you connect to Tinder will be checked by your matches. However, you need to show them that you are a cool person who does cool things. You do not have to go all out, but keep it comfortable. Show off the things that you like. The more interesting you look, the more likely people will spend time on your profile. Keep this in mind.
The first thing that matters in the Tinder game is your profile. However, nothing’s gonna work out unless you have a killer profile. Tinder uses the swipe mechanics and most users do not spend a lot of time while swiping profiles. You also need to make your profile as rad as possible. You wanna grab everyone’s attention. However, Tinder allows you to customize your profile by uploading photos, putting up a bio, connecting your facebook etc. Show off your hobbies, your lifestyle and what you are as a person. People want to match with genuinely interesting people, not boring robots. Check Out – Top Rated Free Dating Apps for Online Dating